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		<title>By: Success? Definitely a Journey. &#124; PRos in Training</title>
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		<dc:creator>Success? Definitely a Journey. &#124; PRos in Training</dc:creator>
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		<description>[...] Mentor: My mentor has been pivotal in my career, and in turn I enjoy being a mentor, too. I&#8217;ve written about the mentor-mentee relationship before. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Mentor: My mentor has been pivotal in my career, and in turn I enjoy being a mentor, too. I&#8217;ve written about the mentor-mentee relationship before. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Westbound</title>
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		<dc:creator>Westbound</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 16:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelli, this is such a great article, thanks so much for sharing your tips and advice.  I have been tasked with putting together a mentorship program for PRSA Young Professionals/PRSA, and I will definitely pass this article to everyone involved in the program!  You have been such a great mentor to many of your students, so its good to hear how a successful relationship comes to life.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;-Andrea</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelli, this is such a great article, thanks so much for sharing your tips and advice.  I have been tasked with putting together a mentorship program for PRSA Young Professionals/PRSA, and I will definitely pass this article to everyone involved in the program!  You have been such a great mentor to many of your students, so its good to hear how a successful relationship comes to life.  </p>
<p>-Andrea</p>
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		<title>By: @atlanta978</title>
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		<dc:creator>@atlanta978</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 23:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In reading this post, I immediately became inspired at the thought of having a mentor that could share insight into the blustery world of public relations or advise on proper steps to make in becoming a more informed professional.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Then, however, I remembered my own experience in trying to attain a mentor. I requested to be enrolled in PRSA mentor matching program, only for them to tell me it is not currently functional. It was my responsibility. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Then I reached out to a few industry insiders, that after a significant amount of emails, only delivered an obligatory apology and advised me to search for someone with a little more time. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It does, to some extent, seem that many of the accomplished pro&#039;s out there simply do not have the time to cultivate a mentor/mentee relationship. As a recent graduate, I feel a little let down by it. I do though follow the awesome Twitter of @kmatthews, and a few others, that provide key insights that some might consider an e-mentorship. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I do not think monetary gain should be an incentive, but purely the knowledge that you helped inspire the next generation of industry leaders. Be flattered that you are considered to be someone worth following. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reading this post, I immediately became inspired at the thought of having a mentor that could share insight into the blustery world of public relations or advise on proper steps to make in becoming a more informed professional.</p>
<p>Then, however, I remembered my own experience in trying to attain a mentor. I requested to be enrolled in PRSA mentor matching program, only for them to tell me it is not currently functional. It was my responsibility. </p>
<p>Then I reached out to a few industry insiders, that after a significant amount of emails, only delivered an obligatory apology and advised me to search for someone with a little more time. </p>
<p>It does, to some extent, seem that many of the accomplished pro&#8217;s out there simply do not have the time to cultivate a mentor/mentee relationship. As a recent graduate, I feel a little let down by it. I do though follow the awesome Twitter of @kmatthews, and a few others, that provide key insights that some might consider an e-mentorship. </p>
<p>I do not think monetary gain should be an incentive, but purely the knowledge that you helped inspire the next generation of industry leaders. Be flattered that you are considered to be someone worth following. <img src='http://www.prosintraining.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kelli Matthews</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelli Matthews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 22:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I appreciate the perspective you both offer. While this was not the conversation I had in mind for this post, I know as well as anyone that I don&#039;t get to control that. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&#039;m sure my readers appreciate the insights and options that you both offer for developing mentor relationships. Thank you for weighing in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I appreciate the perspective you both offer. While this was not the conversation I had in mind for this post, I know as well as anyone that I don&#8217;t get to control that. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure my readers appreciate the insights and options that you both offer for developing mentor relationships. Thank you for weighing in.</p>
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		<title>By: Natasha Friis Saxberg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natasha Friis Saxberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 22:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>From my perspective, it is not black or white. The traditional physical mentorship can still be facilitated online and be executed offline, like any other online community that provides networking such as LinkedIn, job bases etc. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I believe that Mentory together with other services will make e-mentoring evolve and reshape into mentorship 2.0 - online, open and participatory.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Well this is my truth - not necessary the whole truth - but a tiny perspective that adds colour between black and white.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From my perspective, it is not black or white. The traditional physical mentorship can still be facilitated online and be executed offline, like any other online community that provides networking such as LinkedIn, job bases etc. </p>
<p>I believe that Mentory together with other services will make e-mentoring evolve and reshape into mentorship 2.0 &#8211; online, open and participatory.</p>
<p>Well this is my truth &#8211; not necessary the whole truth &#8211; but a tiny perspective that adds colour between black and white.</p>
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		<title>By: hillco</title>
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		<dc:creator>hillco</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 17:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fair enough. I worked on Wall Street, then at a hedge fund. The one big take-away from those experiences is this: people that you would want / need as your mentor don&#039;t have the time / energy to do it for free. With a proper incentive structure [payment] and a proper relationship structure [modules / meeting topics], you have a much greater chance of getting the right Mentor and achieving positive outcomes [i.e., landing your dream job or moving up in your career].  Unlike other platforms that are developed with the ideal that &quot;anyone can be a mentor&quot;, TAG subscribes to exactly the opposite view: the people that should be mentors are very difficult to engage. If you can find a way to land a great mentor yourself, congrats...you are in the small minority.  If you can&#039;t or don&#039;t have the time / energy to keep searching, TAG can help [1] make the proper match and [2] structure the relationship so you are growing professionally from the experience. More info is available here: http://www.slideshare.net/TAGMentor/tag-presentation-1095591.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I am not trying to use your blog as a sales platform, I just feel like readers should be given the real scoop about these virtual networks [namely, that they are as useful as a job posting board in helping your career].</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fair enough. I worked on Wall Street, then at a hedge fund. The one big take-away from those experiences is this: people that you would want / need as your mentor don&#8217;t have the time / energy to do it for free. With a proper incentive structure [payment] and a proper relationship structure [modules / meeting topics], you have a much greater chance of getting the right Mentor and achieving positive outcomes [i.e., landing your dream job or moving up in your career].  Unlike other platforms that are developed with the ideal that &#8220;anyone can be a mentor&#8221;, TAG subscribes to exactly the opposite view: the people that should be mentors are very difficult to engage. If you can find a way to land a great mentor yourself, congrats&#8230;you are in the small minority.  If you can&#8217;t or don&#8217;t have the time / energy to keep searching, TAG can help [1] make the proper match and [2] structure the relationship so you are growing professionally from the experience. More info is available here: <a href="http://www.slideshare.net/TAGMentor/tag-presentation-1095591" rel="nofollow">http://www.slideshare.net/TAGMentor/tag-presentation-1095591</a>.</p>
<p>I am not trying to use your blog as a sales platform, I just feel like readers should be given the real scoop about these virtual networks [namely, that they are as useful as a job posting board in helping your career].</p>
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		<title>By: Kelli Matthews</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelli Matthews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 17:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I appreciate your comment, but I&#039;m uninterested in debating the merits of one platform over another. My interest is in serving students and helping them achieve their goals and build meaningful connections. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;If you represent a company that facilitates mentor-mentee connection, help my readers understand how you fit into that goal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I appreciate your comment, but I&#8217;m uninterested in debating the merits of one platform over another. My interest is in serving students and helping them achieve their goals and build meaningful connections. </p>
<p>If you represent a company that facilitates mentor-mentee connection, help my readers understand how you fit into that goal.</p>
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		<title>By: hillco</title>
		<link>http://www.prosintraining.com/2009/03/building-strong-mentor-mentee.html/comment-page-1#comment-385</link>
		<dc:creator>hillco</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 15:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s the truth: the traditional mentorship model is broken [one in which GottaMentor, Mentory and all of the other online mentorship platforms subscribe to]. These mentor relationships inevitably fail to meet expectations and tend to dissolve without any real progress or goal attainment.  Why is that?  Two reasons: 1.  There are no incentives [besides the &quot;intangible benefit&quot; argument] that keep Mentors engaged, and 2. There is no force that sits in the middle of the Mentor-Mentee pair that helps sustain each relationship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s the truth: the traditional mentorship model is broken [one in which GottaMentor, Mentory and all of the other online mentorship platforms subscribe to]. These mentor relationships inevitably fail to meet expectations and tend to dissolve without any real progress or goal attainment.  Why is that?  Two reasons: 1.  There are no incentives [besides the "intangible benefit" argument] that keep Mentors engaged, and 2. There is no force that sits in the middle of the Mentor-Mentee pair that helps sustain each relationship.</p>
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		<title>By: Natasha Friis Saxberg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natasha Friis Saxberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 10:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with your answer Kelli to online mentorship communities.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;As the founder of Mentory - a global mentorship community. My goal is making it possible for everyone to experience the gift of giving as a mentor and learning as a protégé. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;We all have mentors in different areas of life, some even unconsciously. And the different mentorship relations give different output. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;E-mentoring which is primary online, allows you to be more focused on your goal, more honest and more reflective - since you do not have a physical obligation.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;On the other hand the traditional physical mentorship can be so giving because we get a close relationship that can last an entire lifetime, based on admiration rather than a goal. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Kellis point is what most protégés/mentees experience, it can be quite difficult finding a mentor, if you want a mentor that you do not know already, or a specific person you admire for their achievements - but they live far away, and then there is the barrier of asking. This is where Mentory can help you as an introduce channel and mentorship facilitator, which also is an advantage for those who haven´t tried having a mentorship before, letting them focus on cultivating potential and achieve their goals.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with your answer Kelli to online mentorship communities.</p>
<p>As the founder of Mentory &#8211; a global mentorship community. My goal is making it possible for everyone to experience the gift of giving as a mentor and learning as a protégé. </p>
<p>We all have mentors in different areas of life, some even unconsciously. And the different mentorship relations give different output. </p>
<p>E-mentoring which is primary online, allows you to be more focused on your goal, more honest and more reflective &#8211; since you do not have a physical obligation.</p>
<p>On the other hand the traditional physical mentorship can be so giving because we get a close relationship that can last an entire lifetime, based on admiration rather than a goal. </p>
<p>Kellis point is what most protégés/mentees experience, it can be quite difficult finding a mentor, if you want a mentor that you do not know already, or a specific person you admire for their achievements &#8211; but they live far away, and then there is the barrier of asking. This is where Mentory can help you as an introduce channel and mentorship facilitator, which also is an advantage for those who haven´t tried having a mentorship before, letting them focus on cultivating potential and achieve their goals.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelli Matthews</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelli Matthews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 15:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jon,&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I think they can be very effective. For a couple of reasons. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The first reason is that if you&#039;re in a relatively small town (like we are in Eugene, Oregon), it can be hard to find any professional connection, much less one that lines up with your career objectives. Obviously it&#039;s important to be smart about which platform you choose, but online platforms can greatly expand your possibilities for connections.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The second is that Millennials are very comfortable in a virtual relationship and, I would guess for most, doing so would be little difference than having someone in the same area geographically. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Thanks for the question! &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Kelli</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jon,</p>
<p>I think they can be very effective. For a couple of reasons. </p>
<p>The first reason is that if you&#8217;re in a relatively small town (like we are in Eugene, Oregon), it can be hard to find any professional connection, much less one that lines up with your career objectives. Obviously it&#8217;s important to be smart about which platform you choose, but online platforms can greatly expand your possibilities for connections.</p>
<p>The second is that Millennials are very comfortable in a virtual relationship and, I would guess for most, doing so would be little difference than having someone in the same area geographically. </p>
<p>Thanks for the question! </p>
<p>Kelli</p>
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